NICE Qoutes

These are some qoutes that I love :D . Although a practical is not easy as a theory, but I think these qoutes can open up our minds and give us motivation to ourselves. Let's check it out!

• Just keep swimming. -Finding Nemo- , which means no matter hard your problem , just keep walking without stopping
• Everything will be okay in the end. If  it's not okay, it's not the end. -Unknown-
• You can't start the next chapter of your life if you keep re-reading the last one. -Unknown-
• Everything in life is temporary. So if things are going good, enjoy it because it won't last forever. And if things are going bad, don't worry, it can't last forever either. -Unknown-
• We are the masters of our fate, the captains of our soul, because we have the power to control our thoughts. -Napoleon Hill-
• Life isn't about what happens to us; it's about how we perceive what happens to us. -Unknown-
• You can do anything, but not everything. -David Allen- 
• In the end, it's not going to matter how many breaths you took, but how many moments took your breath away. -Shing Xiong-
• When life gives you a hundred reasons to cry, show life that you have a thousand reasons to smile.     - Unknown-
• When one door closes, another opens; but we often look so long and so regretfully upon the closed door that we do not see the one that has opened for us. - Alexander Graham Bell- 
• We are what with we think. We arise with our thoughts. With our thoughts, we make the world. -Siddhartha Guatama-
• Friendship is born at that moment when one person says to another: ''What! You too? I thought I was the only one.'' -C.S. Lewis-
• Peace begins with a smile. -Mother Teresa-
• Where there is no struggle, there is no strenght. -Oprah Winfrey-
• A person who never made a mistake never tried anything new. -Albert Einstein-
• Everything happens for a reason -Ghostdog- 

• "Eleven Hints for Life"
  1. It hurts to love someone and not be loved in return.
  But what is more painful is to love someone and never
  find the courage to let that person know how you feel.
  2. A sad thing in life is when you meet someone who
  means a lot to you, only to find out in the end that it was
  never meant to be and you just have to let go.
  3. The best kind of friend is the kind you can sit on a
  porch swing with, never say a word, and then walk away
  feeling like it was the best conversation you've ever had.
  4. It's true that we don't know what we've got until we lose
  it, but it's also true that we don't know what we've been
  missing until it arrives.
  5. It takes only a minute to get a crush on someone, an
  hour to like someone, and a day to love someone-but it
  takes a lifetime to forget someone.
  6. Don't go for looks, they can deceive. Don't go for wealth,
  even that fades away. Go for someone who makes you
  smile because it takes only a smile to make a dark day
  seem bright.
  7. Dream what you want to dream, go where you want to go,
  be what you want to be. Because you have only one life and
  one chance to do all the things you want to do.
  8. Always put yourself in the other's shoes. If you feel that it
  hurts you, it probably hurts the person too.
  9. A careless word may kindle strife. A cruel word may wreck
  a life. A timely word may level stress. But a loving word may
  heal and bless.
  10. The happiest of people don't necessarily have the best
  of everything they just make the most of everything that comes
  along their way.
  11. Love begins with a smile, grows with a kiss, ends with
  a tear. When you were born, you were crying and everyone
  around you was smiling. Live your life so that when you die,
  you're the one smiling and everyone around you is crying.
  - Unknown-
  
  

JANGAN CARI GAJAH

“Carilah yang bukan gajah . Bila anda kesulitan menemukan bentuk gajah dalam sebuah bongkah besar marmer, temukan lah bentuk – bentuk yang bukan gajah dan kemudian sebuah bentuk gajah akan terlihat dengan jelas.”
Guys,mungkin kalian semua pernah dengar kata – kata diatas atau mungkin juga belum pernah. Yah barangkali kalian baca dari sekumpulan kata – kata motivasi yang kalian beli di Gramedia (kalau ada), di internet, atau di kebun binatang , lho ?? gara – gara ada gajahnya -.-“ hahaha. Atau malahan ketika kalian liat seekor gajah nongol di Gramedia ??? zzzzz…… mulai tambah ngawur nih @.@ .
Kata – kata tersebut adalah sebuah kata motivasi dari seorang motivator besar Indonesia , Mario Teguh. Aku temukan ketika aku sedang online sambil iseng – iseng download ebook yang berisikan sekumpulan kata – kata motivasi. Dan pada saat membaca, mataku tertuju pada seekor gajah, eh bukan, maksudnya terhenti pada satu motivasi diatas. Sangat menarik, sederhana, tetapi memiliki arti yang sangat besar. Bisakah kalian tebak apa makna dari kalimat motivasi tersebut?
Jadi guys, makna dari kalimat motivator tersebut adalah bila kita menemukan banyak kesulitan dalam membangun kualitas – kualitas bintang pada diri kita, tundalah sebentar upaya itu. Sebagai gantinya,temukanlah keburukan – keburukan yang telah menjadi tuan rumah pada perilaku kita , dan segera hilangkanlah. Bila kita berhasil meminimalkan kekurangan – kekurangan, sebetulnya kita telah berhasil memaksimalkan kebaikan – kebaikan kita.
Mungkin sudah jelas makna dari kata – kata motivator itu. Dalam hidup ini , kita pasti memiliki suatu mimpi yang ingin kita capai. Dan dalam menggapai impian tersebut, segala sikap, perilaku , serta kebiasaan yang merupakan kualitas bintang kita sehari - hari sangatlah berpengaruh . Mereka itu adalah awal, proses, dan akhir yang akan dan selalu mengiringi hidup kita . Pastinya mereka adalah sikap , perilaku , dan kebiasaan yang positif yang mendukung pencapaian impian kita tersebut. Terkadang tanpa pikir panjang kita hanya ingin cepat – cepat menggapai mimpi kita. Kita ingin langsung berlari ke sampai ke tempat tujuan, tanpa melihat bahwa terdapat banyak kerikil di depan kita, yaitu kebiasaan kebiasaan buruk yang dapat menjadi penghalang segala mimpi kita sendiri. Ketika berada di tengah – tengah kita malah terhenti atau bahkan mundur kembali ke tempat semula. Jadi kalau dipikir – pikir , itu hanya akan menghabiskan waktu kita saja, kita mau maju, eh mundur lagi, maju mundur lagi, maju mundur, dan begitu seterusnya. Jadi maju tapi gentar dong :o . Seakan kebiasaan buruk kita selalu mengikat kita dan tak membiarkan kita terlepas darinya.
So, what we should do guys?
Berhentilah sejenak terlebih dahulu. Pertama, kita harus menemukan sumber masalah yang menjadi penghambat kita yaitu sikap, perilaku ataupun kebiasaan buruk yang kita miliki. Setelah kita menemukannya, segera hilangkan keburukan yang ada dalam hidup kita. Menghilangkan kebiasaan buruk pasti terasa sangat sulit karena kebiasaan tersebut telah tertanam dan menjadi tuan rumah dalam pribadi kita. Jadi kita harus benar – benar berusaha :D ,OK ??? Seringkali kita terpacu untuk meningkatkan kualitas bintang kita tanpa menyadari bahwa yang menjadi penghalang adalah diri kita sendiri. Karena sebenarnya , jika kita berusaha meminimalkan kebiasaan buruk kita, kita telah berhasil memaksimalkan kebaikan – kebaikan kita.